Thanks to my Dad for the constant repitition of this cliche, and now to my experiences in 2006 and 2007; I really see what this means and am still amazed at how many people I know and meet spend a large part of their time, energy trying to avoid taxes and the expense of living well. As a financial planner, I am totally in support of aiming to keep a significant amount of money out of the tax collectors hands, now matter what country they are in, I am talking legally of course, and even into the grey area is ok too….There is enough government waste in enough countries that pushing into the grey is ok, and it keeps the government employees on their toes….As for tax systems, and the mess that has become the US tax and AMT codes, I will save for another time, what I want to address here is:
Are you spending too much time and energy trying to avoid taxes to the extent that you are paying for it in other parts of your life? Do you complain more than once a week about paying too much in taxes, have you ever considered moving away from a place you truly like because of the local tax regime? Do you argue with your spouse or other family members based on the decisions you make around your tax situation? Have the tax authorities in any jurisdiction brought suit against you for your actions? Do you lose sleep at night over decisions you have made, that are a result of “tax planning? If you answered yes to too many of these questions, you may need some help; and not just from a team of competent tax advisors….
Ok, not all taxes are fair, and the more you make the more it seems that you are supporting someone else. Then, if you start looking at inheritance taxes, you feel like this is the ultimate insult…You feel that you pay so much in taxes, that you may not even be willing to pay for a competent tax advisor to help “solve your problems”….well here are a few steps to start you down the path of dis-allowing the tax man to penalize you far more than any taxes levied, in the way they are allowed to play too big a role in dictating your life….
- Try to find a good financial life planner who will help extract from you and your spouse your true passions, goals and how it is that you want to be living your life…if you don’t want to hire someone, try reading the following book “Financial Planning - The Next Step: Merging your Clients Money’ with Their Lives” by Roy Diliberto….and figuring it out on your own…
- Next, odds are avoiding taxes is not your reason for being…and if it is….step 2…look for a really good psychologist…for the rest of you…the next step is to have you or your planner figure out how much you are actually paying in taxes, as a percent of your income or wealth, and then determine at what level you would be consider taxes to be “fair”….Another set of calculations or estimations.., find a reasonable estimate as to what your “time” is worth, and how much it is costing you in lost time worrying or complaining about taxes….are you not living the way you want to because of the tax man?…
- Your financial planner should be able to put you in touch with several tax advisors who can advise you on what your alternatives are when it comes to tax planning: Now, if you have been around all of the tax planners in town, and you don’t like the answers from any of them, then perhaps your expectations are unreasonable: Also, know that tax planners talk to each other too…you don’t want to be blacklisted…either by being the biggest pain in the %^&#$%! to your advisor (they did not make the tax laws) and all reputable advisors want to keep their good name, so trying to force one to help you go over the line, is not a good idea….again, this does not mean you should not challenge your advisors to help you pay as little tax as legally possible, but you want to be clear about that line…after all, for most of you, your freedom is worth a lot more than any tax bill…
-If you can get your tax advisors and your financial planner working together to come up with the best solution for you, you may be amazed at what they can come up with. There are a lot of tools out there to help make a tax efficient financial plan and the more you have, the more options are available…one of the keys is for you, and your advisors to be crystal clear about what it is that you want to accomplish…your non financial goals, and to let the financial plan work for you….not vice-versa…
- Ok, so you have followed the above and you are still back at square one, unhappy about your tax situation, not wanting to do anything illegal, but unhappy and letting taxes take too much power in your life…now it may be time to work with a licensed therapist, one specializing in financial matters is even better, to get you focused elsewhere…if you have and make a significant amount of money, perhaps re-directing some money, in a tax efficient way, to the charity of your choice, or better yet joining a charity or setting one up may help you to accomplish much more than you ever thought possible…while at the same time lowering your tax bill…at this point it is going to be largely about re-focusing your efforts and attention, paying zero in taxes is unlikely to happen…and if it does, you may well find something else negative to focus on…the idea is to channel all of that negative energy into something positive; if you are really brave, join your local government and try to make changes to the tax code….to make it a fair system…find out what your government really does with the money, and then make it better…
- What it really boils down to is that if taxes are taking too much of your energy it is up to you to do something about it, and don’t be afraid to ask for help, professional help; be it tax advisors, legal advisors or a therapist…they all have their place, their value and one of the best things you can do is outsource your tax worries to someone else…don’t allow it to be your big problem….and at some level, you will have to accept that taxes, like death, are unavoidable, at least for now….
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